Planet sized feelings
In the solar system the gravity of different things affect each other. Our nervous system is just like that! Its all connected so sometimes when things get too much, we feel very big emotions. Its a good idea to understand these feelings so that we can know what to do to feel better!
flight
In scary times, we might feel like we have to run away, even on a spaceship to
another planet, to be all alone. This feeling, called flight, it’s good for running from
a scary alien!
But if you spend too much time alone without sharing why you’re scared, it can make you
feel lonely. Try talking to a trusted adult and spending time with people you feel safe,
so you don’t feel so alone.
fight
Comets are very fast and burn very hot. If something is upsetting or doesn’t go how we
want, we can very quickly become angry and feel like we have to shout or stomp our feet
or even hit someone.
Take deep breaths so you can think more clearly. If you feel like you’re still
going to hurt someone, it’s a good idea to walk away and find a trusted adult who can
help you feel calmer.
fawn
When we’re very scared, we can sometimes feel like we have to do something even if we
don’t want to. Just like in an eclipse, when we fawn, we’re hiding what we really feel
behind what someone else wants.
If you feel like this, it’s very important that you talk honestly to a trusted adult who
can help
keep you safe so you’re less scared. So you can feel brave to say what you think more
often.
freeze
Europa looks very still on top, but underneath the ice, there are huge ocean waves. In
scary times, our body might feel stuck but inside we don’t feel good and want to move.
Try focusing on something you can see, then a smell and then a sound. When you can, take
deep breaths and try moving something small like a finger! When you don’t feel stuck,
find a trusted adult to talk to.
Things you can do to feel better
When astronauts are training to go into space they practice to make sure, they’re ready for the journey. That way, if something happens, they’re ready and know what to do. We have to do that too even here on earth! This video has lots of tips for feeling better but it’s so important that you practise even when you feel good, so you know how to do it when you’re scared!
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